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	<title>Comments on: Time is a tool, in both senses of the word</title>
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		<title>By: WILL A BOY GO OUT WITH ME &#187; lovemeso</title>
		<link>http://www.communicatrix.com/2006/04/time-is-a-tool-in-both-senses-of-the-word.html/comment-page-1#comment-897</link>
		<dc:creator>WILL A BOY GO OUT WITH ME &#187; lovemeso</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 May 2006 18:46:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Time is a tool, in both senses of the word [...]</description>
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		<title>By: communicatrix</title>
		<link>http://www.communicatrix.com/2006/04/time-is-a-tool-in-both-senses-of-the-word.html/comment-page-1#comment-880</link>
		<dc:creator>communicatrix</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Apr 2006 23:13:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>christy - it's fine to eat dessert first. And it sounds like you have your head on straight and your general priorities in order, so I'm not too worried about you.

Neil - as I've said to you privately, much PUBLIC positive think/speak deserves mocking. I just try to take care not to throw out the baby with the bathwater (has anyone ever done that? Probably in Texas somewhere...)

Michael B - I am so all over that shame/guilt post. I never realized I was lucky to feel guilty! You've opened up new vistas for me, as usual. You're dreamy...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>christy - it&#8217;s fine to eat dessert first. And it sounds like you have your head on straight and your general priorities in order, so I&#8217;m not too worried about you.</p>
<p>Neil - as I&#8217;ve said to you privately, much PUBLIC positive think/speak deserves mocking. I just try to take care not to throw out the baby with the bathwater (has anyone ever done that? Probably in Texas somewhere&#8230;)</p>
<p>Michael B - I am so all over that shame/guilt post. I never realized I was lucky to feel guilty! You&#8217;ve opened up new vistas for me, as usual. You&#8217;re dreamy&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Michael Blowhard</title>
		<link>http://www.communicatrix.com/2006/04/time-is-a-tool-in-both-senses-of-the-word.html/comment-page-1#comment-874</link>
		<dc:creator>Michael Blowhard</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Apr 2006 17:33:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love your "Camp Go Fuck Yourself"! I'll be trying to remember to steal it and use it, though with my memory in the shape it is these days you don't have much to fear or resent. What a sweet and touching posting. I'm voting for you writing sometime about guilt. I have no idea what guilt is. (Raised Protestant, so I know shame. But guilt's a puzzle.) The Wife stomps around sometimes, looking tormented, and I've learned that at such moments she's feeling and enacting this "guilt" thing. But what the hell? How about a posting where you enlighten those of us not in the know about what guilt is? You seem on pretty familiar terms with it. Actually, when I first started hanging out with guilt-ridden types (Jews, Catholics), I found it and them pretty sexy. We "shame" people tend to hide what's bugging us -- that's just in the nature of shame. You guilt people act it all out. It's so ... hot!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love your &#8220;Camp Go Fuck Yourself&#8221;! I&#8217;ll be trying to remember to steal it and use it, though with my memory in the shape it is these days you don&#8217;t have much to fear or resent. What a sweet and touching posting. I&#8217;m voting for you writing sometime about guilt. I have no idea what guilt is. (Raised Protestant, so I know shame. But guilt&#8217;s a puzzle.) The Wife stomps around sometimes, looking tormented, and I&#8217;ve learned that at such moments she&#8217;s feeling and enacting this &#8220;guilt&#8221; thing. But what the hell? How about a posting where you enlighten those of us not in the know about what guilt is? You seem on pretty familiar terms with it. Actually, when I first started hanging out with guilt-ridden types (Jews, Catholics), I found it and them pretty sexy. We &#8220;shame&#8221; people tend to hide what&#8217;s bugging us &#8212; that&#8217;s just in the nature of shame. You guilt people act it all out. It&#8217;s so &#8230; hot!</p>
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		<title>By: Neil</title>
		<link>http://www.communicatrix.com/2006/04/time-is-a-tool-in-both-senses-of-the-word.html/comment-page-1#comment-871</link>
		<dc:creator>Neil</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Apr 2006 01:59:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That was such a positive, uplifting post.  I'm embarrassed to have been mocking positive thinking lately.  You really know how to do it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That was such a positive, uplifting post.  I&#8217;m embarrassed to have been mocking positive thinking lately.  You really know how to do it.</p>
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		<title>By: christy</title>
		<link>http://www.communicatrix.com/2006/04/time-is-a-tool-in-both-senses-of-the-word.html/comment-page-1#comment-864</link>
		<dc:creator>christy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Apr 2006 17:05:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Not me, not yet {sigh}.  I skip straight to the comments (they're dessert) and then go back and read the entry, especially when the comments include lots of ARROWS that say, "GO READ THIS ENTRY!" (that really helps a lot).

But mostly I just want to stop coming to this awful job (2 weeks, 2 days left).  And write stuff.  And eventually fall in love.  And have great sex.  In some order.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Not me, not yet {sigh}.  I skip straight to the comments (they&#8217;re dessert) and then go back and read the entry, especially when the comments include lots of ARROWS that say, &#8220;GO READ THIS ENTRY!&#8221; (that really helps a lot).</p>
<p>But mostly I just want to stop coming to this awful job (2 weeks, 2 days left).  And write stuff.  And eventually fall in love.  And have great sex.  In some order.</p>
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		<title>By: communicatrix</title>
		<link>http://www.communicatrix.com/2006/04/time-is-a-tool-in-both-senses-of-the-word.html/comment-page-1#comment-863</link>
		<dc:creator>communicatrix</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Apr 2006 14:54:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>~Dawn—if the worm is turning, it's turning sloooowly. But I guess that's the point. And age does give one a perspective youth cannot. Thanks for the kind words.

Bon—you &lt;em&gt;are&lt;/em&gt; as wise; you just teach different classes. Believe me, I learn something everytime I drop in.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>~Dawn—if the worm is turning, it&#8217;s turning sloooowly. But I guess that&#8217;s the point. And age does give one a perspective youth cannot. Thanks for the kind words.</p>
<p>Bon—you <em>are</em> as wise; you just teach different classes. Believe me, I learn something everytime I drop in.</p>
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		<title>By: Bon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Apr 2006 11:39:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Awesome, awesome, and more awesome.

Damn, CoCo. I hope I can be as wise as you someday. Seriously. I know it's not easy (and I'm not saying that you make it look easy, as you do love to talk about the work, a thing I so admire that you do), but you sure do it with so much grace that it looks, well, do-able.

Thank you for being so open with your process. You rule the tool.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Awesome, awesome, and more awesome.</p>
<p>Damn, CoCo. I hope I can be as wise as you someday. Seriously. I know it&#8217;s not easy (and I&#8217;m not saying that you make it look easy, as you do love to talk about the work, a thing I so admire that you do), but you sure do it with so much grace that it looks, well, do-able.</p>
<p>Thank you for being so open with your process. You rule the tool.</p>
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		<title>By: ~Dawn</title>
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		<dc:creator>~Dawn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Apr 2006 06:37:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What a thoughtful and thought-provoking post. I made me think of people from my past... hmmm

It would seem that though you say you are impatient by nature, things are turning around. You are seeing time in a new light. Take Care of yourself.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What a thoughtful and thought-provoking post. I made me think of people from my past&#8230; hmmm</p>
<p>It would seem that though you say you are impatient by nature, things are turning around. You are seeing time in a new light. Take Care of yourself.</p>
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