Comments on: “Thank you, sir! May I have another!?”™, Day 21: There’s always room for sorry

By: communicatrix

communicatrix — Sun, 02 Dec 2007 23:48:58 +0000

sb - happened in 2006, but yes, I will be happy to put this crazy-ass year to bed.

By: seanbonner

seanbonner — Sun, 02 Dec 2007 22:51:45 +0000

it’s something about 2007 I tell you… sheesh…

By: communicatrix

communicatrix — Sun, 25 Nov 2007 18:52:13 +0000

Jon - Good idea. Also, good band name. “Vulgar Ingrates.” Love it.

By: Jon Haupt

Jon Haupt — Sun, 25 Nov 2007 18:05:51 +0000

On a radio show (Dennis Prager) on Friday, they discussed
how “infantile expectations” sabotage happiness. I am adding
this label to my list*, just below “vulgar ingrates.”

* List of people I must be very careful to avoid. *G*

By: communicatrix

communicatrix — Sat, 24 Nov 2007 01:12:29 +0000

e - back atcha, kiddo. Hang tough!

Jon - Oh, forgiveness is just one part of the equation, although it can feel significant if you get hung up there. And “sorry” doesn’t mean we all go skipping merrily through the green grass of life: sometimes it’s the beginning of a long, slow road to the next place; sometimes it’s a nicer way for people to part cleanly.

But I wouldn’t hang around anyone for long who didn’t have what you call a generosity of spirit. That’s foolhardiness!

Today Wendy : First, I love your name. Second, I love that you stepped out to thank me for this. I know it can feel weird to do so, and I really appreciate it.

Neil - Well, forgiveness doesn’t mean I throw my arms open and welcome the sinners back into my life. It means I’ve processed what’s happened and am ready to accept what’s happened and let go of attachment to outcome. But if it makes you think better of me, hey–go right ahead!

NFH - Thank you! I’m honored!

kalagrace - I love the idea of an almost-accident. However you found me, I’m glad you did, and hope to see you around the joint more often.

Kare - Thank you! So nice to see you back in these parts. And I’m reminded again, seeing your side, that it’s time to update mine. Poor, barefooted cobbler’s children.

By: Kare Anderson

Kare Anderson — Fri, 23 Nov 2007 19:50:47 +0000

Your candor and storytelling ability makes so many of these themes resonate… some of the twists and turns and subtexts may have been different.. but I’ve been there…
out of the shadows to tell you kudos for your bravery and vulnerability
… and choice to be grateful
Kare

By: kalagrace

kalagrace — Fri, 23 Nov 2007 08:43:22 +0000

i found your blog almost accidentally and i’m so glad that i did. i’ve read this whole series. and today, you’re one of the things i’m thankful for.

By: Not Fainthearted

Not Fainthearted — Fri, 23 Nov 2007 03:08:31 +0000

I want to step out of the shadows a minute to say “thank you!” For your writing, for your honesty, for your ideas. And for putting all that here, where I can follow along. It’s been a privilege to know you through this place.

Hoping you had an wonderful Thanksgiving.

By: Neil

Neil — Fri, 23 Nov 2007 01:02:06 +0000

That certainly says a lot about you — that you are willing to forgive.

By: Today Wendy

Today Wendy — Fri, 23 Nov 2007 01:01:02 +0000

Stepping out of the shadows briefly to tell you that I’ve really enjoyed this series. I’m a big fan of your writing, and have been ever since I first wandered over here, but this 21 day series has been particularly awesome.