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	<title>Comments on: And life begins when you start giving</title>
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	<link>http://www.communicatrix.com/2008/01/and-life-begins-when-you-start-giving.html</link>
	<description>a virgo's guide to the universe</description>
	<pubDate>Thu, 20 Nov 2008 16:32:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Rhei, writer Surefirewealth.com</title>
		<link>http://www.communicatrix.com/2008/01/and-life-begins-when-you-start-giving.html#comment-39449</link>
		<dc:creator>Rhei, writer Surefirewealth.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Feb 2008 11:19:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I remembered this line in our theology class. They said that you will only realize that your life is meaningful when you open your hands to others. They said that it is better to give than to receive and you will only feel it when you give something to others, like the street children. We should always remember that they are also people with heart and soul and they also need the respect what is due to them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I remembered this line in our theology class. They said that you will only realize that your life is meaningful when you open your hands to others. They said that it is better to give than to receive and you will only feel it when you give something to others, like the street children. We should always remember that they are also people with heart and soul and they also need the respect what is due to them.</p>
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		<title>By: Bon</title>
		<link>http://www.communicatrix.com/2008/01/and-life-begins-when-you-start-giving.html#comment-39266</link>
		<dc:creator>Bon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Jan 2008 04:32:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Another brilliant line. Goodness, that LH is smart. Thankee. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Another brilliant line. Goodness, that LH is smart. Thankee. :)</p>
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		<title>By: communicatrix</title>
		<link>http://www.communicatrix.com/2008/01/and-life-begins-when-you-start-giving.html#comment-39264</link>
		<dc:creator>communicatrix</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Jan 2008 23:29:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bon - It would seem you are not the only one :-)

Truth be told, I'd have to do a little more reading myself, to make sure I'm explaining it correctly. I get it enough to feel cool using it on my own stuff, but I'm always hemming and hawing when it comes to explaining it to clients. 

That is AWESOME news about the clients! Yeah, it's scary, but it's the only way. Otherwise, you're working for The Man, only The Man is you and not even kicking in for 2 weeks plus holidays and bennies. Eff that crap. As my friend, LH, sez, I don't want to work for myself until I can treat myself better than my old (bad) bosses did. She has a point, has LH</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bon - It would seem you are not the only one :-)</p>
<p>Truth be told, I&#8217;d have to do a little more reading myself, to make sure I&#8217;m explaining it correctly. I get it enough to feel cool using it on my own stuff, but I&#8217;m always hemming and hawing when it comes to explaining it to clients. </p>
<p>That is AWESOME news about the clients! Yeah, it&#8217;s scary, but it&#8217;s the only way. Otherwise, you&#8217;re working for The Man, only The Man is you and not even kicking in for 2 weeks plus holidays and bennies. Eff that crap. As my friend, LH, sez, I don&#8217;t want to work for myself until I can treat myself better than my old (bad) bosses did. She has a point, has LH</p>
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		<title>By: Bon</title>
		<link>http://www.communicatrix.com/2008/01/and-life-begins-when-you-start-giving.html#comment-39257</link>
		<dc:creator>Bon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Jan 2008 10:37:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I would love, love, LOVE if you would do a CC 101 post at some point, and make it really dumbed down for people who know too much but missed the tech boat on that one. I really did start reading about it long ago, thinking I could make sense of it and post accordingly, but then I never understood it enough in conjunction with the number of words I've sold to "big corporate meanies" and "less-big, less-corporate, less-mean businesses" plus the dang books I write to understand what the blogging dealio might really be.

So I played ostrich neck and... well, there we are.

AND, I still have to say thank you for the post about the "help is everywhere" thingy and the comment about charging twice as much, losing half the clients, and making money more efficiently because of it. See: me, 2008. Holy crap. It's scary as hell and so wonderful. Already. And, fun fact, casting a $20M movie is just as much work as casting a $2.5M movie. Go figure!

Love you, CoCo. Cheese plate awaits! :) XO</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would love, love, LOVE if you would do a CC 101 post at some point, and make it really dumbed down for people who know too much but missed the tech boat on that one. I really did start reading about it long ago, thinking I could make sense of it and post accordingly, but then I never understood it enough in conjunction with the number of words I&#8217;ve sold to &#8220;big corporate meanies&#8221; and &#8220;less-big, less-corporate, less-mean businesses&#8221; plus the dang books I write to understand what the blogging dealio might really be.</p>
<p>So I played ostrich neck and&#8230; well, there we are.</p>
<p>AND, I still have to say thank you for the post about the &#8220;help is everywhere&#8221; thingy and the comment about charging twice as much, losing half the clients, and making money more efficiently because of it. See: me, 2008. Holy crap. It&#8217;s scary as hell and so wonderful. Already. And, fun fact, casting a $20M movie is just as much work as casting a $2.5M movie. Go figure!</p>
<p>Love you, CoCo. Cheese plate awaits! :) XO</p>
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		<title>By: communicatrix</title>
		<link>http://www.communicatrix.com/2008/01/and-life-begins-when-you-start-giving.html#comment-39253</link>
		<dc:creator>communicatrix</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Jan 2008 06:50:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Renita - Well, I can't claim credit, of course :-) But it is a good'un.

And I'll put that CCL post into the hopper. There's a lot of good posts about CC, but somehow, I've had trouble relating to them. Never hurts to have one more voice in support of a good cause!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Renita - Well, I can&#8217;t claim credit, of course :-) But it is a good&#8217;un.</p>
<p>And I&#8217;ll put that CCL post into the hopper. There&#8217;s a lot of good posts about CC, but somehow, I&#8217;ve had trouble relating to them. Never hurts to have one more voice in support of a good cause!</p>
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		<title>By: Renita</title>
		<link>http://www.communicatrix.com/2008/01/and-life-begins-when-you-start-giving.html#comment-39247</link>
		<dc:creator>Renita</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Jan 2008 23:19:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>SHAZAM! I like that -- going to use that as an internal sound effect the next time I give. :-) 

p.s. Yes, please do a post on the Creative Commons license, I was wondering about that and would be interested in learning more.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>SHAZAM! I like that &#8212; going to use that as an internal sound effect the next time I give. :-) </p>
<p>p.s. Yes, please do a post on the Creative Commons license, I was wondering about that and would be interested in learning more.</p>
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		<title>By: steffy</title>
		<link>http://www.communicatrix.com/2008/01/and-life-begins-when-you-start-giving.html#comment-39245</link>
		<dc:creator>steffy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Jan 2008 21:28:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There is always someone's hand in my pocket and it really pisses me off sometimes.  I am always trying to cut corners so I can keep a bit of that "energy" for a raining day, even go as far as suffering through a bout of Cat Scratch Fever until I could no longer endure the pain of growing testicles in my armpits.

I am always willing to pay my fair share of the electricity, water and gas I use but damn, why should I put the President of the eclectric company's kids thru Harvard when I my kids will be lucky if they get to go to Community College?  I USED to get all worked up about that until I found my 49 year old neighbor starving and dying from cancer.  

She was 86 lbs when I found her..filthy, starving and in pain.  I made sure I went over every day and brought her food, took her to Dr appointments and bathed her.  She died three weeks later.  I still feel guilty about being selfish and still wonder, had I found her sooner, if she would have lived a little longer?  I was glad that I could be there for her in her last weeks on earth.  It kind of feels like an honor.


Now when I sit down to pay bills, I am grateful I can afford to do it.  There are many people that can't even afford to feed themselves.  I am so grateful that I am not one of them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There is always someone&#8217;s hand in my pocket and it really pisses me off sometimes.  I am always trying to cut corners so I can keep a bit of that &#8220;energy&#8221; for a raining day, even go as far as suffering through a bout of Cat Scratch Fever until I could no longer endure the pain of growing testicles in my armpits.</p>
<p>I am always willing to pay my fair share of the electricity, water and gas I use but damn, why should I put the President of the eclectric company&#8217;s kids thru Harvard when I my kids will be lucky if they get to go to Community College?  I USED to get all worked up about that until I found my 49 year old neighbor starving and dying from cancer.  </p>
<p>She was 86 lbs when I found her..filthy, starving and in pain.  I made sure I went over every day and brought her food, took her to Dr appointments and bathed her.  She died three weeks later.  I still feel guilty about being selfish and still wonder, had I found her sooner, if she would have lived a little longer?  I was glad that I could be there for her in her last weeks on earth.  It kind of feels like an honor.</p>
<p>Now when I sit down to pay bills, I am grateful I can afford to do it.  There are many people that can&#8217;t even afford to feed themselves.  I am so grateful that I am not one of them.</p>
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		<title>By: communicatrix</title>
		<link>http://www.communicatrix.com/2008/01/and-life-begins-when-you-start-giving.html#comment-39242</link>
		<dc:creator>communicatrix</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Jan 2008 20:02:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Renita - I love that idea of money as energy. I started looking at it as "energy" from a time standpoint many years ago, when my income dropped dramatically (by choice, mainly). But the idea of just giving someone a little energy--like, SHAZAM!!!--that's pretty awesome.

Landry - Another energy giver! And I like the idea of all things we give being energetic extensions of ourselves, or just us as conduits, keeping the flow of energy going.

I love the CC, don't you? (And I know you do, since your stuff is all CC licensed, too.) All the pix I use here from Flickr (well, in the past couple of years) are CC licenses. Gives them exposure and makes the creative effort collaborative, plus way more interesting than if I was providing them myself. I should do a post on that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Renita - I love that idea of money as energy. I started looking at it as &#8220;energy&#8221; from a time standpoint many years ago, when my income dropped dramatically (by choice, mainly). But the idea of just giving someone a little energy&#8211;like, SHAZAM!!!&#8211;that&#8217;s pretty awesome.</p>
<p>Landry - Another energy giver! And I like the idea of all things we give being energetic extensions of ourselves, or just us as conduits, keeping the flow of energy going.</p>
<p>I love the CC, don&#8217;t you? (And I know you do, since your stuff is all CC licensed, too.) All the pix I use here from Flickr (well, in the past couple of years) are CC licenses. Gives them exposure and makes the creative effort collaborative, plus way more interesting than if I was providing them myself. I should do a post on that.</p>
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		<title>By: Landry</title>
		<link>http://www.communicatrix.com/2008/01/and-life-begins-when-you-start-giving.html#comment-39239</link>
		<dc:creator>Landry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Jan 2008 17:01:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When I give (compliments, money, time) I try to be mindful that by doing so, I increase the amount of energy in the system, overcoming entropy and encouraging positive change. I only give as I can afford to do so and always do so w/o expectation. In doing so, I am giving to myself as well as the direct object of my giving.

In addition, I'm SO excited that your blog is covered by a Creative Commons license. What a great way to give.

Namaste</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I give (compliments, money, time) I try to be mindful that by doing so, I increase the amount of energy in the system, overcoming entropy and encouraging positive change. I only give as I can afford to do so and always do so w/o expectation. In doing so, I am giving to myself as well as the direct object of my giving.</p>
<p>In addition, I&#8217;m SO excited that your blog is covered by a Creative Commons license. What a great way to give.</p>
<p>Namaste</p>
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		<title>By: Renita</title>
		<link>http://www.communicatrix.com/2008/01/and-life-begins-when-you-start-giving.html#comment-39227</link>
		<dc:creator>Renita</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Jan 2008 04:00:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I've always had a tit-for-tat attitude toward money -- holding on very tightly to it, trying to get "my money's worth,' not get ripped off... Tipping, especially, caused me a lot of angst: Why should I give a $1 tip at Starbucks when I'd already paid $4 for the coffee?!? 

Then, a friend who is studying to be a financial counselor suggested that I think of money as energy, and that resonated with me and changed my whole penny-pinching outlook. Somehow I was much more comfortable with the idea of giving energy! The very next day, I excitedly gave a $1 tip at Dunkin' Donuts and I felt great. With this simple mind-shift, it's become much easier for me to believe that there is abundance out there for everyone.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve always had a tit-for-tat attitude toward money &#8212; holding on very tightly to it, trying to get &#8220;my money&#8217;s worth,&#8217; not get ripped off&#8230; Tipping, especially, caused me a lot of angst: Why should I give a $1 tip at Starbucks when I&#8217;d already paid $4 for the coffee?!? </p>
<p>Then, a friend who is studying to be a financial counselor suggested that I think of money as energy, and that resonated with me and changed my whole penny-pinching outlook. Somehow I was much more comfortable with the idea of giving energy! The very next day, I excitedly gave a $1 tip at Dunkin&#8217; Donuts and I felt great. With this simple mind-shift, it&#8217;s become much easier for me to believe that there is abundance out there for everyone.</p>
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