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	<title>Comments on: Don&#8217;t save &#8220;happy&#8221;</title>
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	<description>a virgo's guide to the universe</description>
	<pubDate>Thu, 04 Dec 2008 22:53:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Maria</title>
		<link>http://www.communicatrix.com/2008/06/dont-save-happy.html#comment-40741</link>
		<dc:creator>Maria</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Jun 2008 12:32:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Vrey good essay, especally the bit about parents and their signals to children.  You saved the best for last:being small doesn't serve.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Vrey good essay, especally the bit about parents and their signals to children.  You saved the best for last:being small doesn&#8217;t serve.</p>
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		<title>By: Ramana Rajgopaul</title>
		<link>http://www.communicatrix.com/2008/06/dont-save-happy.html#comment-40720</link>
		<dc:creator>Ramana Rajgopaul</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jun 2008 10:38:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Congratulations and I hope to see the book out sooner than later.  If any one can write an appealing one, you can.  You already have a whole lot of admirers for your written word.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Congratulations and I hope to see the book out sooner than later.  If any one can write an appealing one, you can.  You already have a whole lot of admirers for your written word.</p>
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		<title>By: the communicatrix</title>
		<link>http://www.communicatrix.com/2008/06/dont-save-happy.html#comment-40718</link>
		<dc:creator>the communicatrix</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Jun 2008 01:44:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Emily - You totally get it. But yeah, I have to take some risk of tarnishing my rep as a Total Non-Promoter sometimes.

GirlPie - You're right, of course, That's finally what got me: I was afraid of becoming a voice who could influence whom? Yeah. Maybe I ought to take a long, hard look in the mirror about that one.

Thanks for the support.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Emily - You totally get it. But yeah, I have to take some risk of tarnishing my rep as a Total Non-Promoter sometimes.</p>
<p>GirlPie - You&#8217;re right, of course, That&#8217;s finally what got me: I was afraid of becoming a voice who could influence whom? Yeah. Maybe I ought to take a long, hard look in the mirror about that one.</p>
<p>Thanks for the support.</p>
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		<title>By: GirlPie</title>
		<link>http://www.communicatrix.com/2008/06/dont-save-happy.html#comment-40717</link>
		<dc:creator>GirlPie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jun 2008 17:52:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>From your lips to god's ears you should get branded as a YA author -- THE MOST INFLUENTIAL WORK YOU CAN DO is to help people at that age. 

Look at those beloved characters the best-of-the-best create... I'm from the Nancy Drew era (ahem) but am still carrying some of her lessons (although I only adopted her because I couldn't be Sherlock Holmes, my REAL hero...)

You embrace that YA Reader and the genre like the transformational-yet-entertaining cash-cow-of-creativity that it is and build your fans now that'll love you into your eighties.  me and Earl included.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>From your lips to god&#8217;s ears you should get branded as a YA author &#8212; THE MOST INFLUENTIAL WORK YOU CAN DO is to help people at that age. </p>
<p>Look at those beloved characters the best-of-the-best create&#8230; I&#8217;m from the Nancy Drew era (ahem) but am still carrying some of her lessons (although I only adopted her because I couldn&#8217;t be Sherlock Holmes, my REAL hero&#8230;)</p>
<p>You embrace that YA Reader and the genre like the transformational-yet-entertaining cash-cow-of-creativity that it is and build your fans now that&#8217;ll love you into your eighties.  me and Earl included.</p>
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		<title>By: Emily</title>
		<link>http://www.communicatrix.com/2008/06/dont-save-happy.html#comment-40716</link>
		<dc:creator>Emily</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jun 2008 17:14:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Congrats on the book, that's wonderful! 

I agree with you that it can be hard to find a "balance" sometimes - you might not want to share great news because you don't want to feel like you're bragging, or it might not even pan out the way you'd hoped. Furthermore, people can be so jaded these days that they'll either tend to focus on the negative or be distrustful of any praise or happiness that comes their way. Or, they'll be so leary of taking a chance on something that really could make them happy that they'll stay in the "safe zone."

Yep, screw "safe," take chances, and live life. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Congrats on the book, that&#8217;s wonderful! </p>
<p>I agree with you that it can be hard to find a &#8220;balance&#8221; sometimes - you might not want to share great news because you don&#8217;t want to feel like you&#8217;re bragging, or it might not even pan out the way you&#8217;d hoped. Furthermore, people can be so jaded these days that they&#8217;ll either tend to focus on the negative or be distrustful of any praise or happiness that comes their way. Or, they&#8217;ll be so leary of taking a chance on something that really could make them happy that they&#8217;ll stay in the &#8220;safe zone.&#8221;</p>
<p>Yep, screw &#8220;safe,&#8221; take chances, and live life. :)</p>
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		<title>By: the communicatrix</title>
		<link>http://www.communicatrix.com/2008/06/dont-save-happy.html#comment-40715</link>
		<dc:creator>the communicatrix</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jun 2008 06:13:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Angie - Thanks, lady. And stunned at such a loss. Those poor kids. Live every day, indeed.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Angie - Thanks, lady. And stunned at such a loss. Those poor kids. Live every day, indeed.</p>
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		<title>By: Angie</title>
		<link>http://www.communicatrix.com/2008/06/dont-save-happy.html#comment-40714</link>
		<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jun 2008 03:33:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Congrats on the book offer Ms. C! I think we tend to play it safe to many times and that prevents us from being truly happy. I'm sure you would do a wonderful job. I've seen it here many times how much you've touched on what people are feeling.....why not put in a book for ALL to see!

I lost a friend last weekend in a horrible tubing accident in CO., she was 29, a single (and devoted) mom and now she's gone. We need to make "Happy" every day, who knows when our time is up! 

Thanks for sharing the news with a few "friends" we'll be here to support you 100%</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Congrats on the book offer Ms. C! I think we tend to play it safe to many times and that prevents us from being truly happy. I&#8217;m sure you would do a wonderful job. I&#8217;ve seen it here many times how much you&#8217;ve touched on what people are feeling&#8230;..why not put in a book for ALL to see!</p>
<p>I lost a friend last weekend in a horrible tubing accident in CO., she was 29, a single (and devoted) mom and now she&#8217;s gone. We need to make &#8220;Happy&#8221; every day, who knows when our time is up! </p>
<p>Thanks for sharing the news with a few &#8220;friends&#8221; we&#8217;ll be here to support you 100%</p>
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		<title>By: the communicatrix</title>
		<link>http://www.communicatrix.com/2008/06/dont-save-happy.html#comment-40713</link>
		<dc:creator>the communicatrix</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jun 2008 20:54:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jeremy - Yay! (What?)

Mary Ellen - Well, to be fair, I was holding back for a number of reasons. There were so many things up in the air--including whether I even wanted to do it--I felt funny about mentioning it. I think my change of heart comes from thinking I maybe do want to do it, even if it's "only" a YA book (and I may get branded as "only" a YA writer.) 

I finally decided that whatever I write will be my writing, period: if people feel like sticking me in a box, that's their biggie.

Jeanne - Thanks. All sized hips are welcome!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jeremy - Yay! (What?)</p>
<p>Mary Ellen - Well, to be fair, I was holding back for a number of reasons. There were so many things up in the air&#8211;including whether I even wanted to do it&#8211;I felt funny about mentioning it. I think my change of heart comes from thinking I maybe do want to do it, even if it&#8217;s &#8220;only&#8221; a YA book (and I may get branded as &#8220;only&#8221; a YA writer.) </p>
<p>I finally decided that whatever I write will be my writing, period: if people feel like sticking me in a box, that&#8217;s their biggie.</p>
<p>Jeanne - Thanks. All sized hips are welcome!</p>
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		<title>By: Jeanne</title>
		<link>http://www.communicatrix.com/2008/06/dont-save-happy.html#comment-40712</link>
		<dc:creator>Jeanne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jun 2008 18:41:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hip hip hooray about the book!!  Those are big hips, by the way...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hip hip hooray about the book!!  Those are big hips, by the way&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Mary Ellen</title>
		<link>http://www.communicatrix.com/2008/06/dont-save-happy.html#comment-40711</link>
		<dc:creator>Mary Ellen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jun 2008 17:44:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh I'm so excited for you in being approached by a big publisher but I can't say I'm surprised.  It restores my faith in humanity when those in the business of marketing goods and services to the public direct their sights away from crap and toward soul-feeding, forward-pointed, hope-sustaining offerings like yours.  As far as I'm concerned, your book's already written and this grateful member of the fan base loves is and recommends it often.  Whatever work of yours this publisher may ultimately run with, I'll consider it to be your NEXT book.  And right, why harbor this great news?  I hear you accepting your obligation to share it with those of us who need great news because our nation right now is overproducing the other stuff.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh I&#8217;m so excited for you in being approached by a big publisher but I can&#8217;t say I&#8217;m surprised.  It restores my faith in humanity when those in the business of marketing goods and services to the public direct their sights away from crap and toward soul-feeding, forward-pointed, hope-sustaining offerings like yours.  As far as I&#8217;m concerned, your book&#8217;s already written and this grateful member of the fan base loves is and recommends it often.  Whatever work of yours this publisher may ultimately run with, I&#8217;ll consider it to be your NEXT book.  And right, why harbor this great news?  I hear you accepting your obligation to share it with those of us who need great news because our nation right now is overproducing the other stuff.</p>
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