It seems like every 10 or 20 years, there’s one breakthrough book in the personal development category.
The chronological first of the How-Do-I-Get-There-From-Here? books to help me find my way was Barbara Sher’s Wishcraft. It’s gentle and playful in tone, yet still filled with the kind of useful tools and practical exercises that make a Virgo’s heart go pitter-pat.*
Next in the all-star lineup was the first I came to, Julia Cameron’s legendary Artist’s Way. Its language is a bit soft and dreamy around the edges, but structurally, the book is rock-solid. After finishing The Artist’s Way, one friend of mine followed a long-dormant dream of becoming a singer-songwriter; I finally left copywriting behind and embraced the terrifying-to-me path of acting.
Which brings us to today, and to Danielle LaPorte’s sweeping, energizing entry in the canon, The Fire Starter Sessions.
Like her predecessors, Danielle’s exercises for excavating your true self are rooted in real-life experience, emerging over time from hundreds of sessions with actual clients. Full disclosure: I attended an early Fire Starter workshop in Los Angeles, and have been a friend and admirer of the Fiery One and her spark ever since. Further, fuller-than-full disclosure: I am reasonably sure that Danielle may count “witch” alongside other credentials on her impressive resume. She has an uncanny knack for sussing out fuzzy and/or difficult truths that training alone can’t account for.
That said, the worksheets and exercises in TFSS should prove enormously valuable in uncovering your own true self. Her core discovery tool alone (“The Burning Questions”, of course!) will shine considerable light on your key truths, but please don’t skip ahead: the book is designed to lead you through a process, and step-skippers will miss out on valuable anchoring ideas and frameworks.
While the central focus of the book is pretty clearly self-discovery, Danielle also has an excellent grasp of marketing and promotion, especially where they intersect with personal branding, and a keen sense of what stops many of us from making money (hint: usually, prior issues around money). The Fire Starter Sessions is definitely not a business book, but as with Wishcraft, the lessons you learn about how you engage with people, places, and money will impact your work life as well as your personal and spiritual lives.
Finally, if it’s not already obvious, like Sher and Cameron before her, Danielle LaPorte writes for a specific type of creative mind: searching and open, especially to the connection between mind, body, and spirit. While she is absolutely down-to-earth—her language is lively and colloquial and her practical, real-world experience abounds—as the subtitle suggests, her attitude towards change is at least as soulful as it is practical. If pressed, I’d probably describe it as woowoo-friendly, with an edge. Which is far from a bad thing, but is a very particular thing. A quick read of her enormously popular blog or a sample chapter should immediately determine if this book speaks to you.
If it does, you’re in for a real treat: The Fire Starter Sessions contains Danielle’s best wisdom on creating the life you truly desire. It’s comprehensive, wide-ranging, and packed with valuable stuff for the journey.
UPDATE 4/25/12, 10:50am: There’s going to be some kind of a Twitter party going on tonight at 6pm PT. 10 cents for every tweet marked with the hashtag #FireSS goes to WriteGirl, nonprofit beneficiary of The 50-for-50 Project. Go! Tweet!
Book design by Maria Elias. Author photo by Sherri Koop.
*One stellar example? The woowoo-friendly version of that time-tested accountability wonder from the business world, the master mind group. Scher calls hers “Success Team”, and if you’ve been put off by Napoleon Hill’s early-20th-Century, male-centric prose, it might be the thing that finally saves you.