Cleaning My Damned Apartment™

You would think it would be easier to clean your damned apartment than to adjust your mood. Yet this second of my 21-day salutes was way, way harder, and not just because I’m a slob. Making the first meditation about something as obvious as focusing on the happy made the process of writing about it [...]

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After being out of town and just plain out of commission, today found me both home and feeling over my cold enough to catch up with my beloved Lily. I made a decision awhile ago to stop multitasking during real phone conversations, since it’s not possible for me to have a quality talk with split [...]

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Yesterday, I made it formal: I talked to my agent about saying bye-bye to acting. Now, it’s not like this has been a banner year for me, acting-wise; it’s been my worst year since the commercial strike. I’m hitting a weird time, age-wise, and the business has changed a lot, too. Auditions were down anyway, [...]

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There wasn’t a lot of time to tackle new cleaning projects yesterday: it was mostly about clearing project-projects off of my desk. Which I did, to the tune of three. I even unloaded a couple of fresh packs of address labels I’d never gotten around to using on one of my more beloved clients, the [...]

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I don’t know why I have always had such a hard time letting go of stuff, but I have. Chalk it up to fear, I guess: fear of abandonment, of change, of never knowing which end was up and wanting something to cling to in the storm. The good news? The dumping gets easier with [...]

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Sometimes despite the best of intentions you get busy And doing even the smallest thing seems impossible much less a big one But if you want to change you have to commit and do your best however lame it may seem against the backdrop of more heroic feats So today because I am too busy [...]

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Since today was laundry day, I felt like I could slack off a little on the physical inroads to cleanliness. But since I’ve got the bug and my electronic digs could always stand some de-cluttering, and in no small part because I hate greedy, slimesucking pigs who sit on URLs trying to extract a fee [...]

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It’s easy let things slide when I’m busy. Forget the filth: I’m not exactly batting a thousand in the diet and exercise departments these days, either. But this three-week period is as much about attitude adjustment as it is getting to clean. So it’s important that (a) I focus on just the one thing, no [...]

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I spent the bulk of yesterday at My Country House (a.k.a. The BF’s), cleaning up. That wasn’t my original intention in staying over; to be 100% honest, the real reasons were: My Country House is closer to the FAKE gallery, where I finally caught Matt North‘s hi-larious music-and-comedy act, HAIL THE SIZE!, and I hit [...]

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